Wednesday, September 30, 2009

"Goo-Goo for GaGa"

Ok..so I LOVE LADY GAGA! No, I would not always wear the clothes she selects, but no one can doubt that she has impeccable taste and on top of that a phenomenal voice!!  SO WHAT IF PEOPLE HAVE DOUBTS ABOUT HER SEXUAL ORIENTATION! Man or woman ( I believe 100% that she is a woman)..she is still FAB-U-LOUS! Her style is SO unique its impossible for her to go unnoticed. I look forward to seeing all she has to offer in the future..vocally through her music, and visually through her style! SHE IS THE NEXT BIG THING!

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<33 Ty

"Its OK to QUIT!"

This was emailed to me, and put a few things into perspective.. maybe it will do the same for someone else! :)


1. Quit arguing with people about the same old foolishness! Respect their position and keep it moving!

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Quit telling people your secrets when you know they are not going to keep them! And if you keep telling them, then quit getting mad when they tell your secrets!

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Quit trying to pull people on your journey who don't want to travel with you. Either they believe in you and value you...or they don't!

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Quit complaining about things you can't and won't change!

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Quit gossiping about other people! Minding our own business should be a full time job!

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Quit blaming each other for things that in the big picture aren't going to matter three weeks from now! Talk solutions...and then implement them!

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Quit eating things you know are not good for you! If you can't quit...eat smaller portions!

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Quit buying things when we know we can't afford them! If you don't have self control, then quit going to the stores! Quit charging things, especially when you don't NEED them!

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Quit staying in unhealthy relationships! It is not okay for people to verbally or physically abuse you! So quit lying to yourself! It is not okay to stay in the marriage for the children! Ask them and they will tell you that they really would prefer to see you happy and that the misery you and your spouse/partner are living with is affecting them!

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Quit letting family members rope you into the drama! -Start telling them you don't want to hear it! Quit spreading the drama! Quit calling other relatives and telling them about your cousin or aunt! Go back to #5 minding your own business should be enough to keep you busy!

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Quit trying to change people! IT DOESN'T WORK! Quit cussing people out when you know that they are just being the miserable and jealous people that they are!

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Quit the job you hate! Start pursuing your passion. Find the job that fuels your passion BEFORE you quit!

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Quit volunteering for things that you aren't getting any personal fulfillment from anymore! Quit volunteering for things and then failing to follow through with your commitment!

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Quit listening to the naysayers! Quit watching the depressing news if you are going to live in the doom and gloom of it all!

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Quit making excuses about why you are where you are or why you can't do what you want to do!

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Quit waiting on others to give you the answers...and start finding the answers for yourself! If what you are doing isn't working for you...then quit it!

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Quit settling and start making your dreams a reality!- Quit being afraid and START LIVING YOUR LIFE! CREATE THE LIFE YOU WANT! If you want something different than what you have had in the past...you must quit doing what you have done before and DO something different! JUST QUIT IT ...... and START DOING something to create the experience you want!

Words by Notivational Speaker - Veraunda Jackson

<33 Ty

"To break or not to break ... that is the question!"

Ok, so recently me and my bf of 8 months decided that we need time apart. He needs time to himself, but he says he still loves me and cares about me, and wants things to eventually work out between us. Because I love him, I have chosen to respect his feelings, but its hard, very hard! I read, that the best thing for me to do at this time is to give him the break, with no communication..AT ALL! Since I am used to being with him nights on end, I have figured out ways to keep myself occupied. For one, my relationship with my best friend Bren, has strengthened, which is a blessing! We both have young sons, and relate to each other on so many levels. But, that is another blog..another day!(smile) Some might say I have more time with my 5 year old son Jonah now, but my relationship with my son Jonah, was never strained due to my relationship with my man. The love I have for my son could never be compromised or even compared! He gets all of me ALL the time!! I have ALSO discovered that On Demand has Sex and the City on it, so Ive been indulging in re-runs. A DEFINITE BONUS!!! (double SMILE :)).
I have always been a positive person, and I think that this time apart will be for the best, and when we get back together that we will both be better individuals for each other. At times when it gets extremely hard,(just about everyday..LOL) I just think about the fun times we shared in the past, and that lets me look forward to the future...

Our song...



<33 Ty